Relationship matters

Relationship matters

We enter into them for many reasons, some may feel more like a choice than others; love, family, friendship, neighbors, work and otherwise (vendors, etc.)

Real life happens, you make adjustments as you learn about each other’s needs/concerns and practice communicating yours. 

Time goes by, maybe problems arise, AKA opportunities for growth.

Do you take them, look inward or turn them away?

Ask:

1. Have you reached out with genuine care and honesty?

2. Did you listen and HEAR what they had to say?

3. Have you talked with each other about ways to move forward?

4. Did you feel heard and valued, knowing that they're trustworthy? 

5. Were the changes you spoke about put into play?

6. What’s the response if it isn’t this way?

Relationships take practice, most of us are learning. The rate you repeat these steps will be uncertain. We have our own paths, insights to uncover. If you choose to pursue the dynamic do so with awareness. Insight of when it’s time to move forward, adjust or move on. 

 The same applies to any relationship, how often you reach out, how much time and attention you invest will vary based on the type of relationship and the meaning it holds for you.

The one variable that doesn’t change is your ability to choose, how you interact, how you respond, what you take from the experience and how you proceed. You’re the only one that can decide for yourself, if it’s how you want to spend your time, how you want to share your energy and ultimately your heart.